Day 24: Your top 3 worst traits
Well sadly enough, talking about my worst traits is easier than talking about what I think is good about me. Maybe that is its own worst trait in itself?!
1. I am indecisive. I am indecisive about stupid stuff, really. Professionally, I am completely able to make decisions pretty quickly. Yet, if you ask me where I want to go for lunch most days or what I want to do this weekend…I don’t know. Should I buy this shirt or not? I don’t know. I am pretty sure it is the thing that gets on my husband’s nerves the most.
2. I have a hard time saying no, and am a door mat. I let people get away with a lot and take advantage of me. I don’t like to let someone down or disappoint so I have a hard time saying no when I don’t want to do something or don’t really have time to. I also tend to let people walk all over me.
3. I hate confrontation and will avoid it at all costs. Even if I let something eat at me for days, weeks, months…I usually won’t confront someone. I don’t know why. I guess that goes along with not being able to say no and letting people walk all over me. When I do confront someone, it ain’t pretty! You have severely pissed me off and our friendship/relationship is pretty much over at this point!